đ§ Why Founders Flee When You Mention Paid Mentoring or Consulting
âŚand why only 3â7 out of 100 are actually worth your time
Letâs get this straight.
Everyoneâs enthusiastic when they hear âI help startups raise capital, fix GTM, or scale operations.â
But the moment you say âMy fee is âšX,â the energy changes.
 Suddenly they're ârestructuringâ, âtalking to investorsâ, or âlooping back in Q3.â
 Translation? â They just wanted free gyaan, intros, or pitch help.
đ What the data and reality say:
Out of 100 founders/startups:
â 3â7 will pay without blinking
 ⢠Theyâve burned their fingers before and know the cost of free advice
 ⢠Theyâre likely second-time founders, or funded, or just sharp
 ⢠They value time over pride
đ¤ˇââď¸ 10â15 are maybe
 ⢠They need to hit a pain point first ,failed fundraising, stuck GTM, poor CAC
 ⢠Theyâll âcome backâ once they realize Google, ChatGPT, and friends arenât enough
 ⢠Youâll waste time converting them
â 75â85 will NEVER pay
 ⢠They think advice = charity
 ⢠They confuse mentorship with therapy
 ⢠They want investor intros, pitch rewrites, go-to-market plans all for free
đŻ Why Do They Run When You Mention Payment?
Theyâre Broke
Not a crime. But they wonât admit it, theyâll just ghost. If âš10K is a blocker, what are they doing building a startup?
Theyâve Been Burned
Everyoneâs been scammed by some â7-figure coachâ who sells funnels or fluff. Now they treat every consultant like a con.
They Want Execution, Not Strategy
Translation: âCan you do the work while I call myself CEO?â
Thatâs not mentoring. Thatâs co-founding. No thanks.
They Value Tools Over Brains
Theyâll pay âš15K/month for Notion, Canva, and Slack, but hesitate to pay âš xxxxx K for advice that could 10x their outcome.
Their Ego Wonât Let Them Learn
 âOur CEO built this company, I know it bestâ until reality slaps them with churn, no PMF, or a Series A rejection.
đĽ Real Talk
If youâre too cheap to invest in insights, youâll pay heavily in mistakes.
If you expect free mentoring, ask yourself this:
 Would you give me 10 hours a week of your time ,for free, to work on my startup?
Just to be clear: mine is a "X" M$ revenue-generating, profitable, bootstrapped company, Still feel like volunteering?
If the answer is no, donât expect it from anyone else either.
đąMentorship is not a charity.
đConsulting is not âhelping out.â
 If Iâm giving you time, strategy, network, and clarity, Iâm saving you lakhs in mistakes, not charging you for conversation.
đ I Donât Work With Freebie Seekers
I work with founders who:
Know the value of speed + clarity
Are in the 5% who act, not just ask
Want strategic direction + tactical moves, not pep talks
Treat consulting as an investment, not a cost
If youâre one of them DM or drop âMENTORâ in the comments.
If not, please continue asking ChatGPT and LinkedIn gurus for free tips.
Weâll catch up when youâve spent 18 months going in circles.
